Comments By Jenny G.

I can tell you what my wife would do. She would shoot me. Being a combat medic in the military as well as her Masters degree in the medical field, she would stitch me all up so she could shoot me again.

Maybe that was it I didn't give him nothing to fear lol now he knows and he seen a side I don't like to show. Maybe now that I've opened up about this it'll get back to him in a way that he will finally truly understand how much his decision hurt his family or maybe he'll laugh at it and feel free either way I hope for an up side out of this for any spouse that waits on her trucker and prays for his safety daily will be saved from this kind of hurt because this story touched that trucker that almost lost himself out there on the road. Always remember who is waiting for you and what you will lose if you make the wrong choice and what they will lose as well. Safe travels through the holidays

I really don't understand why he would throw away a future so carelessly... He was a man who would ride his bike miles just to tell me he was sorry that was before he went on the road. What about being out there makes someone change. He changed to a point that I found out months after his son was born that he was only half an hour away I gave him an eight hour notice. And I still tried to see it his way. I held onto the memory of who he was before. His passenger couldn't even face me and tell me herself why she excepted a ride from a man she didn't know who told her he was heading home to see his family. What kind of people change like that?

This is what I do know when I asked him he said he hadn't thought about how much it would hurt me because he knows what it is like to be stranded. This is the part that throws me of with this experience. It was over three months sense I had seen him last our son was two weeks old at that time. So when he was on his home time this time I was thrown off by a couple things he said before I even got to see him. One was he told me the wrong day which wasn't completely unusual but the other was he had things he had to do before he could come see me. Six hrs later he knocks at the door stays twenty minutes and leaves. Four hours later he comes back by said he was hanging out with his friends. After twenty minutes he said he was tired and needed to get the truck to the stop he made it sound like he had to get to wa in three hrs and he'd be back in the morning. This was not normal for him. I told him I'd walk him out to his truck that's when he told me about her. I didn't know how to take it. I couldn't talk to him believing he'd be back in the morning. At one the next day my kids and I wanted to go fishing at the lake. He let me know he was back I invited him to go thinking he'd dropped his passenger off. My kids and I were very confused when she got out of the truck. He claimed he told me he was needing to get her to the truck stop in town so she can use the bathroom and shower. He changed his story from the night before. He attempted to comfort me with her watching and I couldn't understand what he was expecting from me. Why come home at all and lie? Why be so open after lieing? I am still very confused.

I'm also very disappointed in him. Someday I hope he runs into a wise driver who tells him something that will stick and turn on a light bulb.

This is what I do know when I asked him he said he hadn't thought about how much it would hurt me because he knows what it is like to be stranded. This is the part that throws me of with this experience. It was over three months sense I had seen him last our son was two weeks old at that time. So when he was on his home time this time I was thrown off by a couple things he said before I even got to see him. One was he told me the wrong day which wasn't completely unusual but the other was he had things he had to do before he could come see me. Six hrs later he knocks at the door stays twenty minutes and leaves. Four hours later he comes back by said he was hanging out with his friends. After twenty minutes he said he was tired and needed to get the truck to the stop he made it sound like he had to get to wa in three hrs and he'd be back in the morning. This was not normal for him. I told him I'd walk him out to his truck that's when he told me about her. I didn't know how to take it. I couldn't talk to him believing he'd be back in the morning. At one the next day my kids and I wanted to go fishing at the lake. He let me know he was back I invited him to go thinking he'd dropped his passenger off. My kids and I were very confused when she got out of the truck. He claimed he told me he was needing to get her to the truck stop in town so she can use the bathroom and shower. He changed his story from the night before. He attempted to comfort me with her watching and I couldn't understand what he was expecting from me. Why come home at all and lie? Why be so open after lieing? I am still very confused.

I would really like to understand his point although every angle I look at it from makes me even more confused... So to all the truckers out there would you feel sorry for someone enough to give them a ride when you know your on your way home for your home time and expect your spouse to see it your way and ask you to have patience and understanding?

My boyfriend drives and has for almost a year on his last home time he brought home a lady claiming to be giving her a ride. I didnt take it well because he hid her and catered to her needs at a local truck stop during nearly his entire hometime. Is this a normal habit of a driver? I would like to understand.

Human trafficking doesn't sound like what I saw she wasnt literally hiding he just hid the fact she was with him waiting on him to take her to the truck stop. And he catered to that stranger reguardless if he didn't cheat. Would any trucker do that on their home time to their family? .... It kind of felt like the joke was on me .... Is there an explanation for why he came home with her in his truck freely able to come and go...

My boyfriend drives and has for almost a year on his last home time he brought home a lady claiming to be giving her a ride. I didnt take it well because he hid her and catered to her needs at a local truck stop during nearly his entire hometime. Is this a normal habit of a driver? I would like to understand.