Ever Been Called An Investment?

So....lets just call him my ex. When we got together he didn't want me working. Now, he wants me gone, good bye and good riddance I say. However, he can't seem to come up with a few hundred bucks to send me on my way. Hmmm.. He told me once he didn't want to invest anymore in me lol if it wasn't going to benefit him haha. Benefit him?? ( Oh I am worth at least a huge pile of gold) Does he think I owe him? ( I should pay for his credit card bills?) Going through a rough patch ladies. Dammit. Just venting. Thnx Keep in mind I have to keep the peace until my new career is underway and I have money to put my things in storage. Oh boy, can't wait to see the look on his face when he sees what kind of return he's going to get! I can't believe I am posting this, but I think it feels, oh so good.

You keep trying to get to your goal.😘😇 and when you there...... You can smile from ear tot ear 😃 and tell him haha NO TOUCHING THIS! And he will try to work his way back in. And you can tell him ,He isn't worth the investment ! I wish I could help you out ..... I hope it's soon ......if not..... start trying to set it up soon. You can alway buy or replace everything honey. Have a yard sale. If it's important then ask someone to hold it for you. ( not the ex) but everything can be replaced ...... Sale everything and get your schooling out of the way and get a job that you can live on the road and save up. Best of luck 😘 remember we love you here and you are worth a huge pile of GOLD!

You keep trying to get to your goal.😘😇 and when you there...... You can smile from ear tot ear 😃 and tell him haha NO TOUCHING THIS! And he will try to work his way back in. And you can tell him ,He isn't worth the investment ! I wish I could help you out ..... I hope it's soon ......if not..... start trying to set it up soon. You can alway buy or replace everything honey. Have a yard sale. If it's important then ask someone to hold it for you. ( not the ex) but everything can be replaced ...... Sale everything and get your schooling out of the way and get a job that you can live on the road and save up. Best of luck 😘 remember we love you here and you are worth a huge pile of GOLD!

Mikki darlin' I'm with Spirit, you can replace just about anything material in life but once your spirit is crushed, THAT is the thing which is hard to get back. You live close to Swift for their schooling so put on your swimming suit and jump in the water!!!! Follow the Nike slogan and just do it!!! We are all here for you!!!!

Ladies thank you so much! I live quite an isolated life, most of the time by choice. Kind of limits your options sometimes,maybe I will work on that. So, Woo Hoo! he left for the weekend to spend that money he just doesn't have. On a slightly evil note does he not realize I prepare all his food? lol All will be o.k. I will prevail!! My new mantra and Jolie knows this one, MASSIVE SUCCESS IS THE BEST REVENGE! If I have to sell everything I will,he certainly is not going to get it. I knew better than to be in such a vulnerable position, had a moment of weakness. Never again!! Thank goodness I found this site right? I will succeed!

Wow , guy sounds like a total tool ! Sadly, there are many out there like that. Work on the YOU part , Karma really is a beyotch LOL

I agree with Spirit, have a yard sale. My house was broken into and robbed a couple of years ago. My dad's money collection that I got after he died was stolen. It wasn't worth, he collected when he was in the Navy in WWII. At first I was really sad about it being gone then I started to remember the stories he would tell me while we looked at his collection, the material things might of been gone but those stories weren't. I know this doesn't really have anything to do with your ex. Sounds like he's the one that's really screwed up if he thinks he's invested in someone other than himself. Be brave and go forth. He's going to be someone you once knew and your life is going to amazing.

Now I should have clicked this sooner but I thought it was totally different! Anywhoo **** that dude. I know it hard when you love someone to totally cut them off especially while yall live together but its best. He sounds like a real ****** bag. You need to gain your independence so get the ball rolling on this whole trucking thang;-) This is why when I have men that tell me they can take care of me I sweetly tell em I can take care of myself but if you would like to contribute to my life have at it. Ps. Even though yall arent married did you know in some stated you can actually sue a boyfriend/girlfriend for spousal support? Might wanna look into that lol

Hey Red, ridiculousness right? I'm to old for this crap. I worked full time my entire life always had my own home. Even when I was married I kept my house and rented it out (back-up you never know). Came in quite handy. So I went for my dream, always wanted a family had a small window of opportunity and I went for it. Completely uprooted my entire life. Blam! I'm not really whining just felt sorry for myself for a minute lol. I'm over it,( or at least working on it) I have many other hopes and dreams and new plans! Thanx for listening.

I'm over it,( or at least working on it) I have many other hopes and dreams and new plans! Thanx for listening.

THATS what I'm taking about! Life it too short. Keep it moving.